None of us are free because we are all pulled and pushed by the relationships in our lives. They determine our moods, motives and actions. How then are we to be free of these factors and sail into relationships that are loving and beautiful, but not coercive? How can we relate to people in freedom? How can we spin away from this cycle of attraction to some and resistance to others? How can we retain our balance in all situations? How can we be our own person all the time with everyone?